Listening......

I made Karen angry by appearing to be unattentive and not interested in what she was saying. But i was really listening. I just didn't want to appear to be coz the flaw that we were talking about has to do with me and by making her point clear to me, it clearly shows that she percieved part of me or what makes up some part of me to be a flaw.

Maybe by preventing myself from being hurt by what other's say, others that i care about get angry with me. Maybe i should just get hurt to please others. It ain't very difficult and it's possible to get used to getting hurt. Not very healthy but everyone is happy at the end of the day. My feelings are not important. I am easy to please and i forget unhappiness easily. As long as others are happy, i will naturally be happy.